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A tantra lingam massage includes sensual touching on the penis, testicles, perineum and can include external and internal prostate massage.

Most men like to give more than receive in sex. I feel that is is because that they feel safer being in control.

Letting go and surrendering is a more feminine quality that most men struggle with.

However, to be really balanced in sex, one needs both a strong masculine side as well as a sensitive feeling side too.

By receiving a loving lingam massage, a man can relax and explore receiving pleasure. The goal of a lingam massage is not an orgasm but that sometimes can occur.

I usually end the massage with a big draw technique that enables the man to enter deep trance states.

How To Start A Lingam Massage

I start with the man lying face down on a massage table. Make sure the room is warm and you have warm massage oil handy.

Before using oil, I use sensual and light strokes with my fingers, feathers and fur.

I also remind the man to breath slowly and more from his belly during the massage. I tell him to take all effort in the in breath and totally to relax on the out breath.

This is an important aspect of the massage, as it allows the energy to build and also any blocks to dissolve.

Next I do a relaxing massage on his back, legs, neck, arms, fingers, feet and buttocks.

I ask the man to turn over and I continue relaxing massage on the top of the legs, stomach and head.

Lingam Massage Strokes

Next I drip warm massage oil on the lingam and just hold the penis in one hand and the other hand on his heart area. I just hold for 30 seconds before starting the penis massage.

Give special attention to the place just below the head on the underside of the magic wand, and area that contains an intense concentration of nerve endings.

This is the place of visions, the third eye of the magic wand in cock reflexology. Pull this skin taut with one hand and massage with thumb circles. You can also pinch this skin between your thumb and index finger and rub and tug.

Cap the head of the magic wand with your whole hand, your fingers on the top side, your palm on the tip, the heel of your palm on the gates of consciousness. Squeeze while rubbing the heel of your palm up and down on the Gates of Consciousness. Some men see colors with this stroke.

There are about 20 more massage strokes I use on the penis. By holding the shaft down with one hand allows a differing sensation compared to not doing this.

I cover 20 massage strokes in my free erotic masssage newsletter.

For some men, I massage the prostate both externally and internally. One nust use lots of lubrication to do an internal prostate massage.  For more tips on prostate massage go to prostate pleasure.

I finish the massage by asking the man to take 10 deep slow breaths in and hold the last.

The masseur stops touching at this point.

Man receiving: take a full deep breath and hold for twenty seconds. Clench all the muscles of your body and slightly lift your head and feet. Remember to clench your butt muscles.

If you have any weakness in your lower back, do the Big Draw without lifting
your head or your feet.

After twenty seconds of clenching, let go. Be with the energy. Do not try to control your consciousness. Let it be. No thing to do.

The Big Draw squeezes the orgasmic energy you have generated into the core of your being where it shoots up through your heart and out the top of your head, connecting your energy with all other energies, the THE Energy.

This is often the time we become deeply aware of all of our relations, especially those we love.

Men go into a deep trance state that can last for 20 minutes.